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Family Law Cost Calculators

Child support, alimony, divorce, and custody costs vary dramatically by state. Our calculators use the official formula your state applies so you know the real numbers before you hire an attorney.

Quick Answer

Child support in the US averages $430/month. In Income Shares states (41 states), both parents' incomes are combined and split proportionally. In Texas, the paying parent pays 20% of net income for one child, 25% for two, 30% for three. The average contested divorce costs $15,000 to $30,000.

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Family Law Cost Tools

Each calculator applies the official formula for your selected state. Enter your information and get an instant estimate with no login or email required.

Understanding Family Law Costs Before You Hire an Attorney

Family law disputes are among the most financially unpredictable legal situations most people ever face. A contested divorce involving children and shared assets can cost $30,000 or more per spouse. Child support and alimony obligations can last years or decades. Understanding the numbers before you walk into an attorney's office can make a significant financial difference.

Every calculator on this page uses the actual formula your state applies. Child support in Texas uses the Percentage of Income model, capped at 20 percent of net resources for one child. California uses an Income Shares model with a complex algebraic formula. These are not estimates based on national averages. They are the same calculations a court-appointed evaluator would run.

Our calculators are not a substitute for legal advice. A family law attorney can identify factors our calculators cannot account for: hidden income, stock options, business ownership, retirement assets, and the specific tendencies of judges in your county. But knowing your baseline numbers helps you evaluate whether a proposed settlement is reasonable. Learn how we verify our data.

Before retaining a family law attorney, understanding the likely cost range gives you a significant negotiating advantage. Attorneys in this field charge $200 to $500 per hour. Knowing whether your child support obligation is $400 or $1,200 per month before your first consultation changes the entire conversation. These calculators give you that number in 30 seconds, for free.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How is child support calculated?+
Child support is calculated using your state's official formula. Most states use the Income Shares model, which combines both parents' incomes and divides responsibility proportionally. Texas and others use Percentage of Income: 20% for one child, 25% for two, up to 40% for five or more. Delaware, Hawaii, and Montana use the Melson Formula. Our calculator applies the correct model automatically based on your state selection.
What is the average child support payment?+
The average child support payment in the US is approximately $430 per month according to US Census Bureau data. Actual amounts vary significantly by state, income level, and number of children. Texas caps support at 20% of net monthly resources up to $9,200. New York applies 17% for one child on combined income up to $163,000 annually.
How long does alimony last?+
Alimony duration depends on your state and the length of the marriage. Massachusetts caps alimony at 50% of marriage length for marriages under 5 years, up to permanent for marriages over 20 years. Texas limits spousal maintenance to 5 years for marriages of 10 to 20 years. Florida abolished permanent alimony in 2023, capping duration at the length of the marriage.
What does a divorce cost on average?+
The average US divorce costs $15,000 to $30,000 when contested, or $1,500 to $5,000 for an uncontested divorce. Court filing fees alone range from $100 to $500 depending on state. Attorney fees typically run $250 to $500 per hour. Mediation costs $3,000 to $8,000 on average and is often significantly less expensive than full litigation.
Is a lawyer required for divorce?+
No state requires an attorney for divorce. You can file a pro se (self-represented) divorce, especially for uncontested cases with no minor children or complex assets. For cases involving child custody, significant assets, retirement accounts, or disagreements on support, an attorney helps protect your rights and avoid costly mistakes that are difficult to undo later.
Can child support be modified after the court order?+
Yes, in every state. Either parent can request modification when there is a substantial change in circumstances, typically defined as an income change of 10 to 15 percent or more, a change in custody arrangement, or a child becoming ineligible for support through age or emancipation. The parent requesting the change must file a formal motion with the court. Informal agreements between parents do not change the legal obligation.
Does remarriage affect alimony or child support?+
Remarriage of the recipient typically terminates alimony in most states, either automatically or upon the payer's motion. Remarriage of the paying spouse generally does not reduce alimony, though it may be considered in modification hearings. Child support is not affected by either parent's remarriage, though a new spouse's income may be considered indirectly in some states when calculating parental resources.
What is the difference between legal separation and divorce?+
Legal separation allows a court to divide assets, establish support, and set custody arrangements while the marriage remains legally intact. Couples may choose separation for religious reasons, to maintain health insurance coverage through a spouse's employer, or to satisfy residency requirements before filing for divorce. In most states, all financial and custody agreements reached during legal separation can be incorporated directly into a divorce decree later.
How does custody affect child support?+
Custody arrangement directly affects child support calculations in most states. The more overnights the paying parent has, the lower the support obligation, because that parent is directly providing housing and care during those nights. In Income Shares states, a parenting time adjustment typically applies once the paying parent has more than 92 overnights per year. Equal 50/50 custody can significantly reduce or even eliminate support if incomes are similar.
What is a QDRO and why does it matter in divorce?+
A Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) is a court order that divides retirement accounts such as 401(k) plans and pensions between divorcing spouses without triggering early withdrawal penalties or taxes. Without a QDRO, a retirement account cannot legally be split in a divorce. QDROs must be drafted by a specialist and approved by both the court and the plan administrator. They add $500 to $1,500 to divorce costs but are essential when significant retirement assets are involved.